December 2009/January 2010 
Engage-new?
Dear Friends,
 
Something about January encourages us to hope for newness. Perhaps it's the change of year, perhaps it's the end to holiday activities. Whatever the reason, January and the months to follow stretch before us full of unknown possibilities. Now is the time to pursue important things that a few months ago seemed too difficult. Now is the time to get elbows deep in caring for another, or to take a good look at living more creatively, or even to receive the possibility of rest for yourself. Now is the time to engage with your life in a new way. It is a new year. The good old days are behind and ahead. And as Auld Lang Syne suggests, we'll take a cup of kindness yet. 
 
We hope you will share Engage with your family and friends.
 
Sincerely,
 
Institute on Aging
Helping Bay Area Seniors Live Independently
 
Home for the Holidays: Responding to Change in Elderly Relatives
 

grandpa cooking with girlThe holidays are a wonderful time to reconnect with family and see with your own eyes how your loved ones are doing. However, sometimes the things we see are alarming. Did you learn something about an elder's care or financial situation that alarmed or concerned you? The following article by Mary Twomey, MSW, Co-Director, Center of Excellence in Elder Abuse & Neglect,  provides helpful assessment information and direction on how to respond to your family's situation.

 

"For many of us, the holidays offer a once-a-year time to visit with elderly relatives who live at a distance. These holiday visits are a good time to assess any assistance parents or other elderly loved ones might need. There are many issues to consider. Does an elderly loved one require help with chores or housekeeping, personal care, shopping and meal preparation, money management, transportation, medical checkups, or medications? Are they isolated or do they live with others? If living with another, are they dependent on that person for care? Is that person an appropriate caregiver?  During your visit, did you see warning signs of self-neglect, or abuse or neglect by others?..." Read More 


 
Spotlight on A Volunteer: Sandy Jack and Fillmore Lifeways  
 
 

sandy jack volunteer

Since joining the Fillmore team in February 2008, Sandy Jack has contributed numerous hours a month to caring for our participants. From initiating fundraising and community outreach to craft project participation, from community outing accompaniment to celebratory events and daily programming tasks, we have been able to depend upon her commitment. No task has been too large or too small. Sandy easily extends a helping hand to staff and participants, many of whom look forward to spending one on one time with her. In our program, where many are not quick to remember a name, she often generates a welcome smile. We have all grown to appreciate her bright and compassionate spirit

 

A native San Franciscan, Sandy has always allotted time for volunteerism, advocacy and community involvement. She shares a wacky and engaging sense of humor with those lucky enough to be in her company. When not providing outstanding support to the Fillmore Lifeways site, Sandy enjoys Giants Baseball, ceramics, playing with "Squeakers" the cat, meeting a new person each day, and enjoying a good laugh.

 
IOA's Fillmore Lifeways program provides medical care (both acute and long-term), prescription drugs, adult day care, personal care, physical therapy, transportation, and home care. Learn More about Lifeways.

Interested in volunteering with Lifeways or other IOA programs? Learn More
Community Events  

Community Forum on HIV and Aging
The aging population of people with HIV is growing as antiretroviral drugs drastically improve survival rates. However, effects of HIV disease and aging on the immune system overlap, and are appearing as non-AIDS inflammatory diseases, earlier aging, and a weaker immune system. This forum will include a panel presentation by HIV positive older adults, a presentation on medical issues related to HIV and aging by Matt Sharp, and a presentation by the SF Department of Public Health on the epidemiology of aging and HIV in San Francisco.
When: January 25, 1pm - 4pm
Where: San Francisco LGBT Center
1800 Market St., 4th Fl, San Francisco
Cost: Free
Info: For information or to register, email Rick Appleby: rappleby@ioaging.org
 
Management of Hearing Loss Class
from CPMC's Health Resource Center
Management of hearing loss and utilizing a hearing aid more effectively improve your communication with others. Learn how to maximize communication through lip reading, stress reduction, creative problem solving, and assertiveness. A speech pathologist will instruct participants in a supportive group environment. Six sessions.  
When: Thursdays, Jan 21 - Mar 4, 1:15-2:45 p.m.
Where: Davies Campus
Conference Room B-1
Castro & Duboce Streets
San Francisco, CA 94114
Cost: Free,  $10 donation suggested
Info: For information or to sign up, call Judi at 415-561-1018.
 
Dinner à la Heart
Enjoy an evening of dining at your choice of fine Bay Area restaurants, and help raise funds to support Bay Area seniors. 
When: Tuesday, February 9, 2009, 7PM
Where: Bay Area restaurants
Info: Visit www.dinneralaheart.org for restaurant information and to make reservations.
 
Free Tax Preparation Day!
For San Francisco residents with household incomes less than $52,000 for 2009, receive: Free 2009 Federal and State tax preparation by IRS-certified tax preparers; Free help completing the Federal Application for Student Financial Aid; Help opening a checking or savings account; Free HUD-approved, non-profit credit counselors to explain your options with mortgage, credit, and debt problems.
When: Saturday, February 20, 10am - 2pm
Where: James Denman Middle School
241 Oneida Avenue, San Francisco
Info: For more information call 415-557-7857
 
 
Education Event
 
Mind, Body, Spirit: Pathways to Improving Health
IOA's next professional education series, Mind, Body, Spirit: Pathways to Improving Health, will feature 3 day-long programs addressing issue relevant to the field of professional eldercare. The first program will address recognizing and responding to clutter addiction and compulsive hoarding in older adults.
When: Wednesday, February 24, 8:30am - 4:40pm
Where: The Event Center at Saint Mary's Cathedral
1111 Gough Street, San Francisco
Info: Visit education.ioaging.org for more information.
ENCOURAGE
 
Dear Encourage,

I have been retired for over three years. For the first couple of years, I did a lot of things-- traveled, visited friends, and worked in my garden. But lately, I haven't felt interested in anything and, as a result, haven't done much.  To be honest, I am bored.

 

What can I do?

 
Dear Stuck in a Rut,

 

I certainly understand how the pattern of doing nothing can begin. Then, it gets difficult to get motivated and start something new. As we move through different stages of our development, we need to remember that our overall health and well-being require that we stay engaged in the world and practice healthy behaviors.

 

Researchers now know that we are not limited by our genetic makeup.  How we choose to live our lives is more important to our quality (and quantity) of life than the genes we were born with. This is hopeful news because we have a chance to be proactive-we have a lot more control over our brain health than we may have thought. Integrating healthy behaviors, such as eating foods high in omega three fatty acids and antioxidants, exercising our bodies and minds regularly, lowering stress levels, getting proper sleep, and taking care of our mental health improves brain power and enhances our cognitive and emotional functioning. Our brains require stimulation to remain robust. New pathways in the brain form from new experiences. And the more pathways we have, the less likely we are to be affected by age-related cognitive changes. Oliver Wendell Holmes said, "One's mind, once stretched by a new idea, never regains its original dimensions." So, stretch your thinking when you can.

 

As we embark on new phases of our lives, we are faced with challenges that require creativity. You may be surprised by the sense of confidence you feel when you try new ways to approach old things. When you take a leap of faith, try something new, nurture your curiosity, and investigate new things, you probably won't feel bored with your life.

 

Now is the ideal time to stretch your imagination, engage your mind, enlighten your spirit, and enrich your experiences. What about starting or joining a gardening club, a walking group, a book discussion night, or a volunteer job? How about reading to a visually impaired individual, taking a trip, learning how to knit or crochet, or finding an interesting recipe and making something new and delicious?  As you can see, the possibilities are abundant!

Do you have a question about engaging with life as a senior? Send it our way. Please note, questions may be printed but will be kept strictly anonymous.  Click here to email us.
Issue 17
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HERITAGE
 
 Every month we highlight a family tradition, such as a recipe, a craft, or a cultural holiday. Please suggest a tradition from your family!

This month's family tradition:
 
Auld Lang Syne
 
family holding hands saying grace

 Sung during the last moments of the year, "Auld Lang Syne" literally means "old long ago," or simply, "the good old days."
 
Should old acquaintance be forgot,
and never brought to mind?
Should old acquaintance be forgot,
and old times since?

For auld lang syne, my dear,
for auld lang syne,
we'll take a cup of kindness yet,
for auld lang syne.

We two have run about the slopes,
and picked the daisies fine;
But we've wandered many a weary foot,
since auld lang syne.

We two have paddled in the stream,
from morning sun till dine;
But seas between us broad have roared
since auld lang syne.

And there's a hand my trusty friend!
And give us a hand o' thine!
And we'll take a right cup o' kindness yet,
for auld lang syne.
syne!
 

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Institute on Aging
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