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Dear Friends,
Something about
January encourages us to hope for newness.
Perhaps it's the change of year,
perhaps it's the end to
holiday activities. Whatever the reason,
January and the months to follow stretch before
us full of unknown possibilities.
Now is the time to pursue important things
that a few months ago seemed too difficult. Now is
the time to get elbows deep in caring for
another, or to take a good look at living more
creatively, or even to receive the possibility of
rest for yourself. Now is the time to
engage with your life in a new way. It is a
new year. The good old days are behind
and ahead. And as Auld Lang
Syne suggests, we'll take a cup of kindness
yet.
We hope
you will share Engage with your
family and friends.
Sincerely,
Institute
on Aging
Helping
Bay Area Seniors Live Independently
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Home for the
Holidays: Responding to Change in Elderly
Relatives
The holidays are a wonderful
time to reconnect with family and
see with your own eyes how your
loved ones are doing. However, sometimes
the things we see are alarming.
Did you learn something about an
elder's care or financial situation
that alarmed or concerned you? The
following article by Mary Twomey,
MSW, Co-Director, Center of Excellence
in Elder Abuse & Neglect, provides
helpful assessment information and
direction on how to respond to your
family's situation.
"For many of
us, the holidays offer a once-a-year time to visit
with elderly relatives who live at a
distance. These
holiday visits are a good time to assess any
assistance parents or other elderly loved ones
might need. There are
many issues to consider. Does an
elderly loved one require help with chores or
housekeeping, personal care, shopping and meal
preparation, money management, transportation,
medical checkups, or medications? Are they
isolated or do they live with others? If living
with another, are they dependent on that person
for care? Is that
person an appropriate caregiver? During
your visit, did you see warning signs of
self-neglect, or abuse or neglect by
others?..." Read
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Spotlight on A Volunteer: Sandy Jack
and Fillmore Lifeways
Since
joining the Fillmore team in February 2008,
Sandy Jack has contributed numerous hours a month
to caring for our participants. From initiating
fundraising and community outreach to craft
project participation, from community outing
accompaniment to celebratory events and daily
programming tasks, we have been able to depend
upon her commitment. No task has been too
large or too small. Sandy easily extends a helping
hand to staff and participants, many of whom look
forward to spending one on one time with her. In
our program, where many are not quick to remember
a name, she often generates a welcome smile. We
have all grown to appreciate her bright and
compassionate spirit
A native
San Franciscan, Sandy has always allotted time for
volunteerism, advocacy and community
involvement. She shares a wacky and engaging
sense of humor with those lucky enough to be in
her company. When not providing outstanding
support to the Fillmore Lifeways site, Sandy
enjoys Giants Baseball, ceramics, playing with
"Squeakers" the cat, meeting a new person each
day, and enjoying a good
laugh.
IOA's Fillmore
Lifeways program provides medical care (both
acute and long-term), prescription drugs, adult
day care, personal care, physical therapy,
transportation, and home care. Learn
More about Lifeways. Interested in volunteering with
Lifeways or other IOA programs? Learn
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Community
Events
Community
Forum on HIV and Aging The aging
population of people with HIV is growing as
antiretroviral drugs drastically improve survival
rates. However, effects of HIV disease and aging
on the immune system overlap, and are appearing as
non-AIDS inflammatory diseases, earlier aging, and
a weaker immune system. This forum will include a
panel presentation by HIV positive older adults, a
presentation on medical issues related to HIV and
aging by Matt Sharp, and a presentation by the SF
Department of Public Health on the epidemiology of
aging and HIV in San Francisco.
When: January 25,
1pm - 4pm Where: San Francisco
LGBT Center 1800 Market St., 4th Fl, San
Francisco Cost: Free
Management of hearing loss and
utilizing a hearing aid more effectively improve
your communication with others. Learn how to
maximize communication through lip reading, stress
reduction, creative problem solving, and
assertiveness. A speech pathologist will instruct
participants in a supportive group environment.
Six sessions.
When: Thursdays, Jan 21 - Mar
4, 1:15-2:45 p.m. Where:
Davies Campus Conference Room B-1 Castro
& Duboce Streets San Francisco, CA
94114 Cost: Free, $10
donation suggested Info: For
information or to sign up, call Judi at
415-561-1018.
Dinner à la Heart
Enjoy an evening of
dining at your choice of fine Bay Area
restaurants, and help raise funds to support Bay
Area seniors. When:
Tuesday, February 9, 2009,
7PM Where: Bay Area
restaurants
Free Tax Preparation
Day! For San Francisco residents with
household incomes less than $52,000 for 2009,
receive: Free 2009 Federal and State tax
preparation by IRS-certified tax preparers; Free
help completing the Federal Application for
Student Financial Aid; Help opening a checking or
savings account; Free HUD-approved, non-profit
credit counselors to explain your options with
mortgage, credit, and debt problems.
When:
Saturday, February 20, 10am
- 2pm Where: James Denman
Middle School 241 Oneida Avenue, San
Francisco Info: For more
information call 415-557-7857
Education Event
Mind,
Body, Spirit: Pathways to Improving Health
IOA's next professional
education series, Mind, Body, Spirit: Pathways
to Improving Health, will feature 3 day-long
programs addressing issue relevant to the field of
professional eldercare. The first program will
address recognizing and responding to clutter
addiction and compulsive hoarding in older
adults.
When:
Wednesday, February 24, 8:30am -
4:40pm
Where:
The Event Center at Saint Mary's Cathedral 1111
Gough Street, San Francisco
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ENCOURAGE
Dear
Encourage,
I have been retired for over three
years. For the first couple of years, I did a lot
of things-- traveled, visited friends, and worked
in my garden. But lately, I haven't felt
interested in anything and, as a result, haven't
done much.
To be honest, I am bored.
What can I
do?
Dear Stuck in a Rut,
I
certainly understand how the pattern of doing
nothing can begin. Then, it gets difficult to get
motivated and start something new. As we move
through different stages of our development, we
need to remember that our overall health and
well-being require that we stay engaged in the
world and practice healthy behaviors.
Researchers now know that we are not
limited by our genetic makeup. How we
choose to live our lives is more important to our
quality (and quantity) of life than the genes we
were born with. This is hopeful news because we
have a chance to be proactive-we have a lot more
control over our brain health than we may have
thought. Integrating healthy behaviors, such as
eating foods high in omega three fatty acids and
antioxidants, exercising our bodies and minds
regularly, lowering stress levels, getting proper
sleep, and taking care of our mental health
improves brain power and enhances our cognitive
and emotional functioning. Our brains require
stimulation to remain robust. New pathways in the
brain form from new experiences. And the more
pathways we have, the less likely we are to be
affected by age-related cognitive changes. Oliver
Wendell Holmes said, "One's
mind, once stretched by a new idea, never regains
its original dimensions." So, stretch your
thinking when you
can.
As we embark on new phases of our lives, we
are faced with challenges that require creativity.
You may be surprised by the sense of confidence
you feel when you try new ways to approach old
things. When you take a leap of faith, try
something new, nurture your curiosity, and
investigate new things, you probably won't feel
bored with your life.
Now is the
ideal time to stretch your imagination, engage
your mind, enlighten your spirit, and enrich your
experiences. What about starting or joining a
gardening club, a walking group, a book discussion
night, or a volunteer job? How about reading to a
visually impaired individual, taking a trip,
learning how to knit or crochet, or finding an
interesting recipe and making something new and
delicious?
As you can see, the possibilities are
abundant!
Do you have a
question about engaging with life as a
senior? Send it our way. Please note, questions
may be printed but will be kept strictly
anonymous. Click
here to email
us.
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Every month we highlight a family
tradition, such as a recipe, a craft, or a cultural
holiday. Please suggest a tradition from your
family! This month's family
tradition:
Auld Lang
Syne
 Sung during the last
moments of the year, "Auld Lang Syne" literally means
"old long ago," or simply, "the good old days."
Should old acquaintance be
forgot, and never brought to mind? Should old
acquaintance be forgot, and old times
since?
For auld lang syne, my dear, for auld lang
syne, we'll take a cup of kindness yet, for auld
lang syne.
We two have run about the slopes, and picked
the daisies fine; But we've wandered many a weary
foot, since auld lang syne.
We two have paddled in the stream, from
morning sun till dine; But seas between us broad have
roared since auld lang syne.
And there's a hand my trusty friend! And
give us a hand o' thine! And we'll take a right cup
o' kindness yet, for auld lang
syne.
syne!
We'd like to feature part of your heritage.
Share a recipe, tradition or family story. We'd love to
print it! Click
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